Looks or Personality?

Posted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 2:44 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

I think it also depends a lot how old u are..
When u are young you watch more the looks, but as u get older u start to think more long term relationships.. and of course if personality sucks u can`t keep relationship..

but if person is really ugly and u can`t even look at her/him... how you are supposed to get to know this person`s personality?

It`s not one without another.. U go for the looks, but in the end personality is what keeps u together.

Also I think most of the couples are kind of same "level" in the looks.. like good looking girl is with handsome man(of course if either one is rich that`s totally different case haha) and not so pretty with not so hot guy.. That`s just how is goes..

Posted: Tue Oct 06, 2009 1:10 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

I prefer personality but it would have been better if he has two qualities personality as well as good looks then you will become a winner already..

Posted: Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:26 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Well, from my observation it goes more like: people date/sleep with people they find really attractive when theyre young, and as you mature you loose interest in that and look to find someone based more on personality. Like girls that "trade down" when they get married.

Personality doesnt matter when youre looking for someone sexy to hang out with and screw for a few months, but when you're looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with, its a different story.

Then again, you have to be ready to wake up to their face the rest of your life, lol.

Basically, I think that whole "looks or personality" thing is a bunch of nonsense anyway. Just because someones attractive doesnt mean they have a bad personality. And on the other hand there are PLEENNNTYYY of hate, awful unattractive people in the world.

In order for anyone to be satiesfied, you need BOTH.

Posted: Fri Oct 23, 2009 6:37 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

There has to be something about the person's looks that would have caught our attention, but that something would vary from person to person.

Of course I would go for personality because that lasts longer (hopefully it doesn't change), and beauty is only skin deep. Imagine if you married someone for his/her looks and when they grow old, everything starts to go out of shape, would you still love that person? But if it's for personality, then I think no matter how bad the person looks, there would still be love in the marriage.