Amen.aNToK wrote:Hmm... the biggest turn-off for me is that when you help someone out or compliment them on something, the ones who automatically think you're trying to hit on them or something.

@BlackNBluebLaCkNbLuE wrote: Valcun, I'm sorry to hit number 14 on your list, but just how many women in this world do you expect to find that meet all of your qualifications? You don't like "6. Women who think to highly of themselves" or "18. Women who are INSECURE!!". I'm curious as to how exactly you measure a woman's self-confidence? And what exactly is an appropriate level?
I realize that you are only 18 and that you still have alot to learn about women, but I would advise that you reevaluate what is really important before you try.
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ahhh that was sad aNix.. i never thought those kind of girls existed not unless if she's a slut... but on the other side, most guys do that right? that when it comes to the point their relationship became so dull, they tend to cheat than telling his girl to break the relationship (considering some fact that girl should be the one to break it up)... that's a turn off...aNiX wrote:This one girl that I really liked turned me off because she was always surrounded by guys. I have this feeling that our relationship will not last very long. Then I never did anything to get with her. Then she got with my friend. Soon after about 3 or 4 months together. She cheated on her boyfriend and slept with another guy for a month before she confessed. They broke up for a few days and got bac together again. Now she will not get any full trust anymore. It's just hard to accept a girl that is surrounded by guys (surrounded meaning that its all guys and barely have any girl friends. A ratio of 1: 10.) Hangs around with guys too =/ She messed up my heart.. but I got over her during summer.
My friend has one of those!Daijoubu wrote:I have a girl friend who made a list of qualities she likes in her ideal guy.
It's 4 pages long.....
That's a turn-off...
When a girl has an exact mental picture of every single qualities she expects from a guy in order to give him a chance to date her.
as much as i abhorred valcun's list, i have to agree with him on this. viewing this thread as a listing of goals made me dislike his list of 30 a teensy bit less, emphasis on the teensy bit. everyone has a picture of the ideal mate in their head, it's just too bad that valcun will never find his with all those standards of hisValcun wrote:
these are just goals. Most guys who post their turn offs on here are "Ideal" or how to so say, goals. Even girls have ranking systems but you just don't realize it. "Ugly", "Ok" "Decent" "Kind of Cute" "HOT". No one is really suppose to obtain these things, no one ever can. The main basis for this thread is to look at all the things that turn the opposite sex off...
yes, finally somebody understands me. Guys don't really have to shave their arms and legs for me, just their arm pits. I find it absolutely unhygienic, especially in the summer. When they wear those sleeveless T-shirts, and you can see the weed coming out from their arms >_<Schala wrote:Hear hear! I don't like body hair at all, on guys or girls. x_X But I wouldn't make a guy shave his arms or legs, but if he did, that would be a nice bonus. ^o^Kirari wrote: I mean, guys don't like hair on girls. Why do we have to like hair on them.
OMG.. I THOUGHT YOU GUYS WERE TALKING ABOUT HAIR ELSEWHERE... LOLKirari wrote:yes, finally somebody understands me. Guys don't really have to shave their arms and legs for me, just their arm pits. I find it absolutely unhygienic, especially in the summer. When they wear those sleeveless T-shirts, and you can see the weed coming out from their arms >_<Schala wrote:Hear hear! I don't like body hair at all, on guys or girls. x_X But I wouldn't make a guy shave his arms or legs, but if he did, that would be a nice bonus. ^o^Kirari wrote: I mean, guys don't like hair on girls. Why do we have to like hair on them.
Kirari wrote:
yes, finally somebody understands me. Guys don't really have to shave their arms and legs for me, just their arm pits. I find it absolutely unhygienic, especially in the summer. When they wear those sleeveless T-shirts, and you can see the weed coming out from their arms >_<
I've always been told that if guys shave their arm pits, they not masculine. Yea...my dad told me that when I was still a kid.Kirari wrote:Guys don't really have to shave their arms and legs for me, just their arm pits. I find it absolutely unhygienic, especially in the summer. When they wear those sleeveless T-shirts, and you can see the weed coming out from their arms >_<
Think we found one of Ashley's turn-off'spRincEton giRL wrote:know what i've noticed some guys here were so unbeatable with their standards. i dont like guys who seemed to be so perfect with themselves to get grip with a 'perfect girl' that in a sense they were so unrealistic.. it turns me off at some point. :XD
hahaha...i agree!...total head rush...you'll smell the cologne before you see them coming!gsr_raver wrote:I was talking to my X, i remenber something.
A MAJOR TURN OFF WHEN HE OR SHE SPRAY 3+ OF Cologne.!!!! If you can smell it 4 feet away.. TURN OFF...
i don't mind Cologne.when i'm i next to the person. not when i'm like 4 feet distance and can smell it strong..eWWWwWWWWWW
<,,,--- screeching halt here...pRincEton giRL wrote:ahhh that was sad aNix.. i never thought those kind of girls existed not unless if she's a slut... but on the other side, most guys do that right?aNiX wrote:This one girl that I really liked turned me off because she was always surrounded by guys. I have this feeling that our relationship will not last very long. Then I never did anything to get with her. Then she got with my friend. Soon after about 3 or 4 months together. She cheated on her boyfriend and slept with another guy for a month before she confessed. They broke up for a few days and got bac together again. Now she will not get any full trust anymore. It's just hard to accept a girl that is surrounded by guys (surrounded meaning that its all guys and barely have any girl friends. A ratio of 1: 10.) Hangs around with guys too =/ She messed up my heart.. but I got over her during summer.
so lil mrs xaiko, for #3, are u saying u like or get turned on by ghetto guys/gang bangers when they really are?? Im sure u mean you hate ghetto guys/gang bangers period... cuz i sure do, i just wanna tie em up and smack em on the forehead for 10 minutes.mrs_xaiko wrote:what turns me off?....here's my list:
3. wanna be ghetto guys/gang bangers when they’re not
5. guys who are lazy (they don’t go to school or have a job)
6. guys who don’t have goals (all they want to do is stick with their factory job that pays
Thanks. True, guys do that too. But I'm not one of them. If something like that would happen, then I'll be honest. That's what relationship is all about right? Honesty. But yeah, I do pay attention when I comes to girls that I like or start dating. Don't know I should consider her having over 12 boyfriends a slutpRincEton giRL wrote:ahhh that was sad aNix.. i never thought those kind of girls existed not unless if she's a slut... but on the other side, most guys do that right? that when it comes to the point their relationship became so dull, they tend to cheat than telling his girl to break the relationship (considering some fact that girl should be the one to break it up)... that's a turn off...aNiX wrote:This one girl that I really liked turned me off because she was always surrounded by guys. I have this feeling that our relationship will not last very long. Then I never did anything to get with her. Then she got with my friend. Soon after about 3 or 4 months together. She cheated on her boyfriend and slept with another guy for a month before she confessed. They broke up for a few days and got bac together again. Now she will not get any full trust anymore. It's just hard to accept a girl that is surrounded by guys (surrounded meaning that its all guys and barely have any girl friends. A ratio of 1: 10.) Hangs around with guys too =/ She messed up my heart.. but I got over her during summer.
hmmp i think you should be very careful in choosing a girl.. dont fell that easily because that's pretty hard to mend.
Ugh. Agreed. I'm so sick of the overweight girls that think even though they're overweight, they can fit into a size 4. x_Xtechie wrote: One thing that is a BIIIIIIIG turn off though, I have to say, is when you see a clearly overweight gal, dressed in tight jeans and a far to short top where it hangs over the sides...
Yep, i'm big too, but i do somethings like Big girls, but when i seem those kind. I'm sorry, but i gotta look away.. For the sake of ----- LOOK AWAY!!!!Schala wrote:Ugh. Agreed. I'm so sick of the overweight girls that think even though they're overweight, they can fit into a size 4. x_Xtechie wrote: One thing that is a BIIIIIIIG turn off though, I have to say, is when you see a clearly overweight gal, dressed in tight jeans and a far to short top where it hangs over the sides...
So true, and to those guys who had a problem with weight issues being a turn off...Schala wrote:Ugh. Agreed. I'm so sick of the overweight girls that think even though they're overweight, they can fit into a size 4. x_Xtechie wrote: One thing that is a BIIIIIIIG turn off though, I have to say, is when you see a clearly overweight gal, dressed in tight jeans and a far to short top where it hangs over the sides...
Yeah. I'm overweight as well, but jeeze, at least I have taste, and KNOW I'm not going to fit into a size 4. Ugh. x_Xgsr_raver wrote: Yep, i'm big too, but i do somethings like Big girls, but when i seem those kind. I'm sorry, but i gotta look away.. For the sake of ----- LOOK AWAY!!!!
It's also so funnie, Because i go to DEB... sometimes with girlfriends, and I ways seem those kinda girls fitting clothes witht eh some small size on.. OMFG go to the larger size PLZ!! It reminds me of White Chicks(the movie). but with larger girls!
awww! I hope you weren't put through that torment! it is ridiculous if the guy ask you out and he ends up talking about his past relationships... it's like all he really wanted to begin with is a spare ear to listen to him.. that's just damn right pathetic.pRincEton giRL wrote:when the guy ask you out for a date then started talking bout his past relationships... *eeewwww*![]()
or when the conversation is really boring then things would lead to something like that...
Looks like you'll be single for a loooooong time.greenrocks wrote:Things that turns me off...
Any guy who
1. Smokes, do drugs
2. Lacks sense of humor + can't communicate
3. Lies, bullies (violently, but suppose for fun... Acceptable)
4. Is not bold, straightforward, undecisive (weak)
5. Gets angry (yelling at ppl, not being reasonable) or jealous so
quicky
6. Thinks highly of himself, boasts abt himself... Skills qualification
he possesses (not humbled)
7. Refuses to worship Jehovah / Doesn't take part in Jehovah's Witness
8. Is not immune to cruel, harsh comments or conversation
(oversenstive)
10. Argues too much, disagrees w/ me
11. Doesn't like kids
12. Is dumb, I'd rather have "not-bad" OKAAAY looking guy if his looking
doesn't bother me w/ witty brain than a dumb person
13. Works in a fast-paced (hard worker), well-timed loaded with a lot of
energy as possible as he could (doesn't nessecarily requires a bicep or
tricep, bcuz whatever I don't care for those.... Just in fit shape,
little chubby won't hurt but not that fat)
14. Goes out partying too much... Or doing things that is a great deal
of waste time
15. Doesn't like/love to travel all over the world (even so at 17, I
love traveling! When I was younger, I always wanted to travel anywhere
as much as I can.)
16. Isn't treacherous, mischievous (not in bad ways, its fun pulling
pranks or whatever)
17. Is scared to take risks (as long as the action doesn't go aganist
Jehovah's will)
18. Doesn't show respects for elders (old ppl, we'll be old one day!)
19. Looks down on people, big-headed, altered-ego, conceited, low
self-eseteem
20. Doesn't accept particular races/skins including disabled (deaf,
handicapped), blinded, mentally-retarded, ppl w/ diseases, as well as
his enemies (He has to love them all, no matter what)
21. Is greedy
22. Has no patience, often gets fed-up
23. Can handle himself, he's a big boy.
And the list goes on...
I know, I am picky...?Sorry, I was being honest... What can I say?
I ONLY DO THAT TO GIRLS WHO I DONT WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, MY WAY OF BLOWING EM OFF BY TELLING THEM HOW BAD I AMskrhgh3b wrote:woah. i've got to stop doing that lolpRincEton giRL wrote:when the guy ask you out for a date then started talking bout his past relationships... *eeewwww*![]()
or when the conversation is really boring then things would lead to something like that...
Hey, we should hook up! Haha! J/kgreenrocks wrote:Things that turns me off...
Any guy who
1. Smokes, do drugs
2. Lacks sense of humor + can't communicate
3. Lies, bullies (violently, but suppose for fun... Acceptable)
4. Is not bold, straightforward, undecisive (weak)
5. Gets angry (yelling at ppl, not being reasonable) or jealous so
quicky
6. Thinks highly of himself, boasts abt himself... Skills qualification
he possesses (not humbled)
7. Refuses to worship Jehovah / Doesn't take part in Jehovah's Witness
8. Is not immune to cruel, harsh comments or conversation
(oversenstive)
10. Argues too much, disagrees w/ me
11. Doesn't like kids
12. Is dumb, I'd rather have "not-bad" OKAAAY looking guy if his looking
doesn't bother me w/ witty brain than a dumb person
13. Works in a fast-paced (hard worker), well-timed loaded with a lot of
energy as possible as he could (doesn't nessecarily requires a bicep or
tricep, bcuz whatever I don't care for those.... Just in fit shape,
little chubby won't hurt but not that fat)
14. Goes out partying too much... Or doing things that is a great deal
of waste time
15. Doesn't like/love to travel all over the world (even so at 17, I
love traveling! When I was younger, I always wanted to travel anywhere
as much as I can.)
16. Isn't treacherous, mischievous (not in bad ways, its fun pulling
pranks or whatever)
17. Is scared to take risks (as long as the action doesn't go aganist
Jehovah's will)
18. Doesn't show respects for elders (old ppl, we'll be old one day!)
19. Looks down on people, big-headed, altered-ego, conceited, low
self-eseteem
20. Doesn't accept particular races/skins including disabled (deaf,
handicapped), blinded, mentally-retarded, ppl w/ diseases, as well as
his enemies (He has to love them all, no matter what)
21. Is greedy
22. Has no patience, often gets fed-up
23. Can handle himself, he's a big boy.
And the list goes on...
I know, I am picky...?Sorry, I was being honest... What can I say?
oh that what disgusting, dont you know? then why ask a girl out if you dont feel liking her or what...??? in your end you will never be happy because 'revenge' had filled up your mind and heart. .. or telling the whole world how 'bad' you are.. then what if you fell for a girl and she doesnt like you? would that be a sweet revenge on your deeds?? perhaps, it reflects on your doings too. so better be careful. we always end up feelin remorse or regretful.flynvballer wrote:I ONLY DO THAT TO GIRLS WHO I DONT WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, MY WAY OF BLOWING EM OFF BY TELLING THEM HOW BAD I AM
what i was saying before was... if i can sense a girl wanting to get to know me better when i dont feel the same way, i usually bring out my manwhore side and tell em stories about how a bad boy i am .,.. when im not really, honestly. And do i feel bad or whatever?? no never, if ur someone who i cant imagine going out with then i would never change my feelings for them. I dunno how to explain it... i do but it'll be too long and i'd have to type even longer than my previous posts..pRincEton giRL wrote:oh that what disgusting, dont you know? then why ask a girl out if you dont feel liking her or what...??? in your end you will never be happy because 'revenge' had filled up your mind and heart. .. or telling the whole world how 'bad' you are.. then what if you fell for a girl and she doesnt like you? would that be a sweet revenge on your deeds?? perhaps, it reflects on your doings too. so better be careful. we always end up feelin remorse or regretful.flynvballer wrote:I ONLY DO THAT TO GIRLS WHO I DONT WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, MY WAY OF BLOWING EM OFF BY TELLING THEM HOW BAD I AM
flynvballer wrote:what i was saying before was... if i can sense a girl wanting to get to know me better when i dont feel the same way, i usually bring out my manwhore side and tell em stories about how a bad boy i am .,.. when im not really, honestly. And do i feel bad or whatever?? no never, if ur someone who i cant imagine going out with then i would never change my feelings for them. I dunno how to explain it... i do but it'll be too long and i'd have to type even longer than my previous posts..pRincEton giRL wrote:oh that what disgusting, dont you know? then why ask a girl out if you dont feel liking her or what...??? in your end you will never be happy because 'revenge' had filled up your mind and heart. .. or telling the whole world how 'bad' you are.. then what if you fell for a girl and she doesnt like you? would that be a sweet revenge on your deeds?? perhaps, it reflects on your doings too. so better be careful. we always end up feelin remorse or regretful.flynvballer wrote:I ONLY DO THAT TO GIRLS WHO I DONT WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, MY WAY OF BLOWING EM OFF BY TELLING THEM HOW BAD I AM
im just an OTAKO posting crap on the net! haha oh man
anywhere in between?? what do u mean?? wat im saying is that i cant gain feelings for someone if when the first time i met them, i didnt like their attitude , yes their looks, or anything then i wont gain feelings for them, im very stubburn like dat. But if i met smoeone but i didnt gain feelings for them except that i think they look nice, they are pretty cool.. so therefore they're on my potential to be someone i would go for in the future even tho i dont even care about em. as long as their on my my negative never gain feelings for side. and the girls who are on my never gain feelings for side are usually just regular friends im with, go hang out, go movies, play some vball, beach, even go to my house and chill... i dont dislike girls unless they done something for me to dislike them, just the girls who dont fall int omy like catagory i assume would be in my in between side??dana wrote:flynvballer wrote:what i was saying before was... if i can sense a girl wanting to get to know me better when i dont feel the same way, i usually bring out my manwhore side and tell em stories about how a bad boy i am .,.. when im not really, honestly. And do i feel bad or whatever?? no never, if ur someone who i cant imagine going out with then i would never change my feelings for them. I dunno how to explain it... i do but it'll be too long and i'd have to type even longer than my previous posts..pRincEton giRL wrote: oh that what disgusting, dont you know? then why ask a girl out if you dont feel liking her or what...??? in your end you will never be happy because 'revenge' had filled up your mind and heart. .. or telling the whole world how 'bad' you are.. then what if you fell for a girl and she doesnt like you? would that be a sweet revenge on your deeds?? perhaps, it reflects on your doings too. so better be careful. we always end up feelin remorse or regretful.
im just an OTAKO posting crap on the net! haha oh man
So confident in yourself and what u want from a girls you like or dislike. IS there anywhere in between?
ah ok. dont need to explain, perhaps i got your point. you must be explaining your side. what i was telling on my previous post that i dont like guys "telling their past relationships" whenever they asked me out for a date. what the heck!!! i never asked a guy out in my entire life.. although we're up ahead on a liberal world, i still value conservatism.flynvballer wrote:what i was saying before was... if i can sense a girl wanting to get to know me better when i dont feel the same way, i usually bring out my manwhore side and tell em stories about how a bad boy i am .,.. when im not really, honestly. And do i feel bad or whatever?? no never, if ur someone who i cant imagine going out with then i would never change my feelings for them. I dunno how to explain it... i do but it'll be too long and i'd have to type even longer than my previous posts..
im just an OTAKO posting crap on the net! haha oh man
haha ok je comprend.....i suppose if u liked that guy then yea it would suck if he just blabbed about how he went out with those chicks.. either u're get bored or jealous or angry. I dont do that if i like the girl of course. errrrrrrrrrrrrrr cuz im a nice guypRincEton giRL wrote:ah ok. dont need to explain, perhaps i got your point. you must be explaining your side. what i was telling on my previous post that i dont like guys "telling their past relationships" whenever they asked me out for a date. what the heck!!! i never asked a guy out in my entire life.. although we're up ahead on a liberal world, i still value conservatism.flynvballer wrote:what i was saying before was... if i can sense a girl wanting to get to know me better when i dont feel the same way, i usually bring out my manwhore side and tell em stories about how a bad boy i am .,.. when im not really, honestly. And do i feel bad or whatever?? no never, if ur someone who i cant imagine going out with then i would never change my feelings for them. I dunno how to explain it... i do but it'll be too long and i'd have to type even longer than my previous posts..
im just an OTAKO posting crap on the net! haha oh man
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