GUYS : What kind of girl do u like???
GUYS : What kind of girl do u like???
I'm wondering...What kind of girls do u ppl like?
There is oposite thread...and girls said what kind of guys they like...so GUYS it is your turn now....
It is not OK for guys to be judged all the time...
Girl needs to know what guy likes, too...right?
There is oposite thread...and girls said what kind of guys they like...so GUYS it is your turn now....
It is not OK for guys to be judged all the time...
Girl needs to know what guy likes, too...right?
well.... i know this one might be taboo for me but anyways i'm NOT fond of outer looks *shock* may help but when i'm looking for a girl, i'm always thinking in terms of can i live with this person for the rest of my life?
on that note, personality is more important to me. i guess someone who has a nice simple personality would be best i'm kinda a bum in many aspects. and VERY raw and dumb in this field beyond that... well.. nah i think my only criteria is a fitting personality.
(for those who say but THAT girl is HAWT! well... i was taught not to judge books by their covers and besides.... wait 10 years and those "assets" depreciate *cough accounting student cough*)
oh and also... *gets shot by every girl on the forum* or at least i presume that would be the reaction.... sorry girls!
on that note, personality is more important to me. i guess someone who has a nice simple personality would be best i'm kinda a bum in many aspects. and VERY raw and dumb in this field beyond that... well.. nah i think my only criteria is a fitting personality.
(for those who say but THAT girl is HAWT! well... i was taught not to judge books by their covers and besides.... wait 10 years and those "assets" depreciate *cough accounting student cough*)
oh and also... *gets shot by every girl on the forum* or at least i presume that would be the reaction.... sorry girls!
haha. yea depreciate *cough* accounting geek ryt here too.. haha i jst randomly found this topic.. lolCJH wrote:well.... i know this one might be taboo for me but anyways i'm NOT fond of outer looks *shock* may help but when i'm looking for a girl, i'm always thinking in terms of can i live with this person for the rest of my life?
on that note, personality is more important to me. i guess someone who has a nice simple personality would be best i'm kinda a bum in many aspects. and VERY raw and dumb in this field beyond that... well.. nah i think my only criteria is a fitting personality.
(for those who say but THAT girl is HAWT! well... i was taught not to judge books by their covers and besides.... wait 10 years and those "assets" depreciate *cough accounting student cough*)
oh and also... *gets shot by every girl on the forum* or at least i presume that would be the reaction.... sorry girls!
So correct me IF I'm wrong..but I should be easy to get along with, with simple personality and....and drunk?! ( just kidding -_-' )
But what about looks...how should girl look like...is it important to be beautiful?
'If it doesn't matter... then I have one cool neighbour that is just 88 years old and she realy has simple personality..... '
But what about looks...how should girl look like...is it important to be beautiful?
'If it doesn't matter... then I have one cool neighbour that is just 88 years old and she realy has simple personality..... '
As in: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harold_and_MaudeDreamfall wrote:So correct me IF I'm wrong..but I should be easy to get along with, with simple personality and....and drunk?! ( just kidding -_-' )
But what about looks...how should girl look like...is it important to be beautiful?
'If it doesn't matter... then I have one cool neighbour that is just 88 years old and she realy has simple personality..... '
Beauty and/or the person's over all look (style of clothing, face, hair) helps in deciding if I like a girl. It is part of a person. and outer appearance IS the first thing one notices, then that person's actions and personality. The way she looks has to matter since that's what I look at when i talk to her. I love staring at a girl, when talking, eating, and/or if she is doing anything else. just studying her and trying to find out who she is by just watching her.
not that I'm a stalker or anything. lol
and of course, personality. I've been in 2 relationships where I just take what ever it is the girl dished out on me. calling me up in the middle of my sleep to help her out. or just listen to her. listening to her boy problems (after we broke up) even though she knows well i still like her and it pains me to hear it and asking myself why she chose him instead of me when i can be better. lol
well sorry for ranting there.
but over all. its the whole package. i fell for a simple looking girl with an awsome personality. a beautiful girl (so bright that i get so shy just by being around her) but with a boring personality. and i mostly choose the simple one with the awsome personality.
so long as she can hang out with me anytime, anybwhere. enjoy each other's company in a bookstore, the beach, the mall. watch movies together and criticize it later on. lol
this is a fun topic
not that I'm a stalker or anything. lol
and of course, personality. I've been in 2 relationships where I just take what ever it is the girl dished out on me. calling me up in the middle of my sleep to help her out. or just listen to her. listening to her boy problems (after we broke up) even though she knows well i still like her and it pains me to hear it and asking myself why she chose him instead of me when i can be better. lol
well sorry for ranting there.
but over all. its the whole package. i fell for a simple looking girl with an awsome personality. a beautiful girl (so bright that i get so shy just by being around her) but with a boring personality. and i mostly choose the simple one with the awsome personality.
so long as she can hang out with me anytime, anybwhere. enjoy each other's company in a bookstore, the beach, the mall. watch movies together and criticize it later on. lol
this is a fun topic
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One of the most frustrating things about guys is that they tend to like girls who play hard to get. I want to show my feelings honestly and don't want to have to act like I'm not interested or don't think they're all that great when I do, so back when I was single, this aspect of the dating game was a source of great irritation for me.
I tend to fall for very complex and hard to understand women. I love to explore people feelings. Foul or strong temper is actually my weak point too. That's something i find being an endless supply of fun.
that's the story of my lifekaileonis wrote: I've been in 2 relationships where I just take what ever it is the girl dished out on me. calling me up in the middle of my sleep to help her out. or just listen to her. listening to her boy problems (after we broke up) even though she knows well i still like her and it pains me to hear it and asking myself why she chose him instead of me when i can be better. lol
Yes. Guys feel exactly the same.Dreamfall wrote:Sometimes I'm afraid of guys...actualy of their judgment...Like:Am I pretty enough, funy enough...ANYTHING ENOUGH!?Stupid Q isn't it?! I feel so complexed from time to time....Do guys feel the same about girls they like?
Of course, there are plenty of mentally ill people out there of both genders who do not follow the rules... If you find yourself repeatedly involved with people who react pathologically (acting out violence, drinking to the point of passing out, driving a car agressively) to minor stress, you need to step back and ask yourself what it is about those people that is attracting you, and learn to see it as a warning sign. A very unfortunate friend of mine was attracted to men who were shy... Except when they were angry, when they became EXTREMELY violent. She could pick them out without fail. I pointed out to her that all her boyfriends had back trouble and broken noses at the time she met them, but she didn't get the hint, and kept on seeking out men who would ultimately attack her physically in a violent rage.
Did I just go waaaaayyy off topic?
i'd say it differs from people to people on that note if you need them drunk well.... i doubt it's gonna last longDreamfall wrote:So correct me IF I'm wrong..but I should be easy to get along with, with simple personality and....and drunk?! ( just kidding -_-' )
But what about looks...how should girl look like...is it important to be beautiful?
'If it doesn't matter... then I have one cool neighbour that is just 88 years old and she realy has simple personality..... '
as for physical appearance PERSONALLY i have no particular preference but i won't turn someone down if they're less than stellar *cough i'll have to get back on you for people i find ugly cough*
on that note, i find girl i can get cute angry really fun
i disagree on that one... well for my friends at least *rolls eyes* half of them just go for the pretty looking ones whilst i stand back and watch em fallmalljclay wrote:not a guy but
reality check
inner beauty is OVERRATED : )
i think bottom line is it's all personal preference and differs from person to person.
Yo guys! I am finally back from a week training...Dreamfall you started an interesting but hard to answer topic. Personally (usually same as other guys!) I don't have a specific mindset on girls. If they are pretty it is a bonus, if they have personnality another bonus...but what is pretty? Personality-wise i went 2x for a very fiery, loud girl. It irritates me but i do like it sometimes...so it depends.
Ok....here is some of my hypocrisy (to myself and to guy I've been with)...1,5 years ago I was in relationship which started like this...he stared at me all tha time in school...I wouldn't even notice him if my classmate didn't tell me about... So...he is very boring person (to be honest ) but I didn't tell him so when I realized it...After 2 months I couldn't resist not to tell him :"Sorry Darlin...I feel relationship is not what I want now...blah,blah....(lie,lie,lie)..." .
Why I wasn't honest and said what I realy think...I didn't love the guy anyway?!?!?!?
Since then....All guys I liked were unreachable or not noticing me...Do I have high criteria... do I choose guys too pretty for me???
Why I wasn't honest and said what I realy think...I didn't love the guy anyway?!?!?!?
Since then....All guys I liked were unreachable or not noticing me...Do I have high criteria... do I choose guys too pretty for me???
so.. umm.. whats your number? maybe we can change all that.
at times i tell myself, i should be more honest with my feelings, then perhaps I might find myself together with her. I used to be like you dreamfall. i still am when i find the girl i am attracted to seem to be out of reach for me. but at times i do meet girls that i tend to connect right away and be comfortable enough to act myself. we do tend to lie and tend to show the person we are attracted to a different us hoping he/she will be attracted to us and later show our true selves or the rest of ourselves.
at times i tell myself, i should be more honest with my feelings, then perhaps I might find myself together with her. I used to be like you dreamfall. i still am when i find the girl i am attracted to seem to be out of reach for me. but at times i do meet girls that i tend to connect right away and be comfortable enough to act myself. we do tend to lie and tend to show the person we are attracted to a different us hoping he/she will be attracted to us and later show our true selves or the rest of ourselves.
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Seem like you're a smart guy.CJH wrote:
well.... i know this one might be taboo for me but anyways i'm NOT fond of outer looks *shock* may help but when i'm looking for a girl, i'm always thinking in terms of can i live with this person for the rest of my life?
Not sure if you mean unreachable guys are "pretty" guys? May be you have not try to get to that friend status with those unreachable guys yet? If you just stay an one place and expect those unreachable guys to look at you, I don't it's possible unless you're those super beautiful gals... Just that I thought, the first step to even get those guys to acknowledge you is you have be friends and talk to them. The case I stated here is general case.. of course there are exceptions...Dreamfall wrote:
Since then....All guys I liked were unreachable or not noticing me...Do I have high criteria... do I choose guys too pretty for me???
Many guys claim to consider girl's look and attraction. But in the end, guys will end up with the girls that they can really talk to and be comfortable with. Am I right or wrong???
Anyway, not sure if I'm hitting the right topic here. I have a friend who told me this statement "In general cases, it is the girls who chase the guys NOT the other way round." So any of you people agree with it?
My sentiments exactly. its the accessability and experience (memories) you build that keeps you from going back to that person. even despite of the bad memories at times you just try and find ways to get to her/him even if he/she treats you unkindly at times. lolAboutDrama wrote:
Many guys claim to consider girl's look and attraction. But in the end, guys will end up with the girls that they can really talk to and be comfortable with. Am I right or wrong???
so it is OK to be refused ...even I'm a girl..?
Not so long ago I asked my friend about one guy...and friend helped me asking 'other side' what thinks about me...There was aproblem...Guy met me (only once)when I was in bad and not so talkable mood ( I was silent whole evening ...darn it!)....And he judged me as very silent girl by seeing me just once...So he actualy refused me...
But I'm not that kind of person...But he made conclusion that fast...and that wrong...
Not so long ago I asked my friend about one guy...and friend helped me asking 'other side' what thinks about me...There was aproblem...Guy met me (only once)when I was in bad and not so talkable mood ( I was silent whole evening ...darn it!)....And he judged me as very silent girl by seeing me just once...So he actualy refused me...
But I'm not that kind of person...But he made conclusion that fast...and that wrong...
do you still see the guy around? why not start a conversation with him whenever you do? relationship needs to be cultivated. it doesnt just grow from one meeting alone. when there's a get together and he's around why not talk to him? show your other self. perhaps he'll know you then and start to like you. ^^
the only problem i have now a days is that i don't get to hang out often enough since i been working. hopefully when i start school this coming semester i can start socializing again and meet some people (mainly girls) and hope to find someone and start a relationship with her.
and yes it is ok to be refused. he is also a person who has the right to choose which one he likes or not.
and dont worry! try to let yourself be known by talking and meeting again!
the only problem i have now a days is that i don't get to hang out often enough since i been working. hopefully when i start school this coming semester i can start socializing again and meet some people (mainly girls) and hope to find someone and start a relationship with her.
and yes it is ok to be refused. he is also a person who has the right to choose which one he likes or not.
and dont worry! try to let yourself be known by talking and meeting again!
THANKS PPL....Hope I'll meet guy again...it is a shame to loose him once more.
I wont stop talking until my tongue falls out of my mouth...just kidding...
Don't want to make him feel bored eather...
Hey...guys...what does make you feel bored while talking with a girl...Is there any topic that makes you sleep with eyes wide opened? ("I'm only sleeping in my head...." Dawid Bowie...just remembered that song)....
I wont stop talking until my tongue falls out of my mouth...just kidding...
Don't want to make him feel bored eather...
Hey...guys...what does make you feel bored while talking with a girl...Is there any topic that makes you sleep with eyes wide opened? ("I'm only sleeping in my head...." Dawid Bowie...just remembered that song)....
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Well when you people say the inner is the most important I sort of agree, but I disagree a bit too
It might be that u meet a girl that is not very pretty, actually UGLY, but good inner. I dont think you would go for her at the first place.
My opinion is that a girl should be okay, also not very UGLY. Just ok to look at, thats how you get ur sight at her at the first place.
And @Dreamfall: What you said is right, a guy might be bored alot when you dont talk at all. And the most stupid thing u can do is to look like u r bored. If you look bored the guy will be bored too and then just forget you.
Anyway where do you live? What do you mean by being rejected and so on? Did you confess to em or something?
It might be that u meet a girl that is not very pretty, actually UGLY, but good inner. I dont think you would go for her at the first place.
My opinion is that a girl should be okay, also not very UGLY. Just ok to look at, thats how you get ur sight at her at the first place.
And @Dreamfall: What you said is right, a guy might be bored alot when you dont talk at all. And the most stupid thing u can do is to look like u r bored. If you look bored the guy will be bored too and then just forget you.
Anyway where do you live? What do you mean by being rejected and so on? Did you confess to em or something?
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Anyone who says looks aren't important is a liar. Looks are important, if she doesn't fall into the category I like when it comes to looks, why would I talk to her...
Anyway...
Other than that: she needs to be intelligent, creative, with a decent personality (not like Paris Hilton who's as dumb as a stick, yet, a stick, at least, is useful), she also needs to be strong (mentally). If I there's something I hate, then it's submissive women. Blargh. Women who're like chewing gum stuck to your shoes, I hate them. She needs to be able to make her decisions and push them through. She needs to have spine and guts. Additionally, she should have similar interests. And if she doesn't like animals, well... no chance then.
Anyway...
Other than that: she needs to be intelligent, creative, with a decent personality (not like Paris Hilton who's as dumb as a stick, yet, a stick, at least, is useful), she also needs to be strong (mentally). If I there's something I hate, then it's submissive women. Blargh. Women who're like chewing gum stuck to your shoes, I hate them. She needs to be able to make her decisions and push them through. She needs to have spine and guts. Additionally, she should have similar interests. And if she doesn't like animals, well... no chance then.
@nnt...I wasn't rejected like "Girl..I don't like u..blah blah" but saying to my friend "She seams so quiet to me...not my type" is enough for me.I didn't confes that I like him.I just asked my friend to find out what guy thinks about me...of course...i forgot how I acted when meeting him for the first time....
Ok..I live in Serbia...It is near Adriatic sea...
Why do u ask that?!
Ok..I live in Serbia...It is near Adriatic sea...
Why do u ask that?!
lol Crazy Penguin....how very true it is....well girls, I guess you'll just have to stop chewing gums and you just have to start liking animals, because Crazy Penguin has lots of penguins? ....oops, sorry ....Crazy Penguin wrote:Anyone who says looks aren't important is a liar. Looks are important, if she doesn't fall into the category I like when it comes to looks, why would I talk to her...
Anyway...
Other than that: she needs to be intelligent, creative, with a decent personality (not like Paris Hilton who's as dumb as a stick, yet, a stick, at least, is useful), she also needs to be strong (mentally). If I there's something I hate, then it's submissive women. Blargh. Women who're like chewing gum stuck to your shoes, I hate them. She needs to be able to make her decisions and push them through. She needs to have spine and guts. Additionally, she should have similar interests. And if she doesn't like animals, well... no chance then.
Hehehe, I was just wondering because in my country its nothing like confessing so easily and so on. But u really didnt do it anywayDreamfall wrote:@nnt...I wasn't rejected like "Girl..I don't like u..blah blah" but saying to my friend "She seams so quiet to me...not my type" is enough for me.I didn't confes that I like him.I just asked my friend to find out what guy thinks about me...of course...i forgot how I acted when meeting him for the first time....
Ok..I live in Serbia...It is near Adriatic sea...
Why do u ask that?!
Might be that its from country to country, culture...
But one thing I think is hard is like if you see a girl or guy in the street you think is pretty, you cant just go check her/him up right?.. Wouldnt that be weird...?
Always wondered..
I'm not sure if I should agree or disagree on looks are important, but I do believe that personality beats everything. Two of my friends were not popular or the prettiest in school, but many of the guys liked them. The guys came and told me that they like my friends because of their outgoing personality, and kindness.
Also, I noticed that those who dated pretty girls were just acting (pretending) and to get people's attention. And guess what, after two days, they were with a different person. That's why some of the girls hate guys who care more about the outer looks, especially her figure. This applies to both genders, but mostly guys.
But it really depends on what kind of relationship you want. If you want a serious, long lasting one, then you should not care about the looks, but focus on the personality. Same for the girls.
Also, I noticed that those who dated pretty girls were just acting (pretending) and to get people's attention. And guess what, after two days, they were with a different person. That's why some of the girls hate guys who care more about the outer looks, especially her figure. This applies to both genders, but mostly guys.
But it really depends on what kind of relationship you want. If you want a serious, long lasting one, then you should not care about the looks, but focus on the personality. Same for the girls.
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looks are important.. for example i dont date fat girls..but not looking for a 10. i will date 5.5's and up.
personality= shy in some ways, but can socialize with my friends and knos how to have a good time. Must be intelligent enough to know WHEN i am right. likes to do some of the stuff i do.Must have her own friends!! oh yea sweet and caring is always a plus but i see that as my job. just let me kno when im doin a good job..
personality= shy in some ways, but can socialize with my friends and knos how to have a good time. Must be intelligent enough to know WHEN i am right. likes to do some of the stuff i do.Must have her own friends!! oh yea sweet and caring is always a plus but i see that as my job. just let me kno when im doin a good job..
haha alright, too straightforward.. What if they just look weird at you and just leave.. What if they dont want to talk to you.. Everything is to happen. So my opinion is if you and her see each other, or else it would be just WEIRD! And it has to be a bit "RANDOM" hehe Like you see each other or something you can talk about.
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I'm 25 years old, and if life has taught me anything it is that no girls are as romantic as I. There are no girls out there for me.
I have noticed that girls only want lying bastards who acts tough, instead of streight forward guys who're only tough when they need to protect the ones they care about.
It is only when I lose my shirt on a hot day I get attention from girls, when they see I'm what all other guys pretend to be. I **** hate it when strange girls comes over to squeeze my nipples. Would you like it if I squeezed yours without knowing you? Most of you would, 'cause that's what girls are like. They want to jump streight in to oral and anal experiements, skipping all the steps I care about.
Korean dramas is my only gateway to a fictional world I live for.
Amen.
P.S. I hate sluts in other words.
I have noticed that girls only want lying bastards who acts tough, instead of streight forward guys who're only tough when they need to protect the ones they care about.
It is only when I lose my shirt on a hot day I get attention from girls, when they see I'm what all other guys pretend to be. I **** hate it when strange girls comes over to squeeze my nipples. Would you like it if I squeezed yours without knowing you? Most of you would, 'cause that's what girls are like. They want to jump streight in to oral and anal experiements, skipping all the steps I care about.
Korean dramas is my only gateway to a fictional world I live for.
Amen.
P.S. I hate sluts in other words.
Dreamfall>> Hi long time ne? What you said to nnt just does not work...they would find me quite silly hehe . My best approach technique is to cause a little accident such as spilling somthing or budging them, then say sorry, then let me make up for it?
Densha>> You are just too much man, your answer made me laugh thanks you made my day WHAT WAS THAT ABOUT?
Densha>> You are just too much man, your answer made me laugh thanks you made my day WHAT WAS THAT ABOUT?
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@Voyant I made an example that works here in town where I live...It doesn't work on evry girl in the world,sheesh......Also here guys think that making any kind of accident would make them seam like very CLUMSY!
@Densha Otoko...ever herd of male sluts...I did...(there are a lot of them)!
Not ALL girls want to squeeze your nipples...at least I don't (just mocking you )
@Densha Otoko...ever herd of male sluts...I did...(there are a lot of them)!
Not ALL girls want to squeeze your nipples...at least I don't (just mocking you )
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love in concealed in a kettle, add water in it then boil it..that is when love first start...as it starts getting warmer, you start developing feelings for him/her.. as it reaches to its boiling point, you have to confess how much you love that person. but suddenly your love for him/her dies away.. just like how the water evaporates when it reaches 100 degrees... so how would you prevent this? just take it off the stove and keep on adding water.. the extra water you're adding in is like giving someone a surprise party.. they didn't see it coming.. and as long as you keep on adding water while its boiling.. a love like that could maintain throughout your entire life. love is all about surprises..that's what keeps both party happy.. there may be up and downs in life..but life is all about discovery.. discovering the other persons real self and discovering yours too..
ever heard of discovery channel?? well we're animals too~
YA~ i yabber on so much up there~ .. ooOh and if u want a ever lasting relationship..should always follow that old saying "opposite attracts".. if 2 people have so much things in common.. your love life will be boring~..
and should always spike things up now and then to excite the relationship just as adding cold water to hot water.. ( when u'r taking a shower on a cold cold night.. and the water coming out of the shower is warm to hot..then suddenly a pile of cold water just so suddenly came out and splash all over you..wouldn't you be surprised and shock?.. ( i prefer the word "spike" then "spice".. )
FAR~!~ too long
bye
ever heard of discovery channel?? well we're animals too~
YA~ i yabber on so much up there~ .. ooOh and if u want a ever lasting relationship..should always follow that old saying "opposite attracts".. if 2 people have so much things in common.. your love life will be boring~..
and should always spike things up now and then to excite the relationship just as adding cold water to hot water.. ( when u'r taking a shower on a cold cold night.. and the water coming out of the shower is warm to hot..then suddenly a pile of cold water just so suddenly came out and splash all over you..wouldn't you be surprised and shock?.. ( i prefer the word "spike" then "spice".. )
FAR~!~ too long
bye
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lol, I would think only if the guys just want to get laid, and the poor girl is too drunk to say no and too drunk to resist it lol....but then again, if that's the case, then the guy is a really big looser ....but then again who knows? ....ImaginaryFriend wrote:are you guys being serious when you say "drunk ones" ?? :>
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ImaginaryFriend wrote:hahaa i guess so. that really sucks tholol, I would think only if the guys just want to get laid, and the poor girl is too drunk to say no and too drunk to resist it lol....but then again, if that's the case, then the guy is a really big looser ....but then again who knows? ....
dreamfall... in regards to the make-up issue. we dont expect it as long as it enhances whats there and not overpower/decieve.
i actually preferred my previous girlfriend without it ( or without wearing anything at all ), but in her mind she needed to do it to make her feel pretty. Sucks how society's view of beauty can overwhelm someone's sense of awareness.
I think the question is, how do u feel about wearing the make-up? does it make you confident, boost your self-esteem? or does it make you feel like you have to wear in order to fit in or daresay entrap someone into liking you?
if anything, do what makes you happy. no need to impress anyone, but yourself.
in regards to the original topic of what type of girl i like?
1. symmetrical features (sux that looks are first, huh? i blame society, again
2. comfortable to be around
3. sexual prowess that matches or exceeds my own (hey, deep down everyone is a pervert )
k.. i think im done with my PSA slash brain shi-art (tissue plz) and thanx for makin this topic... it was a good read
i actually preferred my previous girlfriend without it ( or without wearing anything at all ), but in her mind she needed to do it to make her feel pretty. Sucks how society's view of beauty can overwhelm someone's sense of awareness.
I think the question is, how do u feel about wearing the make-up? does it make you confident, boost your self-esteem? or does it make you feel like you have to wear in order to fit in or daresay entrap someone into liking you?
if anything, do what makes you happy. no need to impress anyone, but yourself.
in regards to the original topic of what type of girl i like?
1. symmetrical features (sux that looks are first, huh? i blame society, again
2. comfortable to be around
3. sexual prowess that matches or exceeds my own (hey, deep down everyone is a pervert )
k.. i think im done with my PSA slash brain shi-art (tissue plz) and thanx for makin this topic... it was a good read
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well for me i think that both appearance and personality are important . I mean hey , if you're gonna bring a girl out whether to your boss's party or just a club , having a good looking partner for a good first impression is always good i dont really like hypocrites like this classmate of mine who went :
him : ' personality is so much more important than looks '
me : ' really? like seriously u think so? '
him : ' OF COURSE! '
another friend : ' DUDE CHECK THAT GIRL OUT! '
him : ' where? Ohhhh NICE! '
another friend : ' the one to the left '
him : ' AHHH i see her! OHH EEMMM GEEE mini skirts...'
me : ' -_-" '
This was wad really happened everything above is true , if memory serves right we heard that girl acting coquettish to her dad ( on the phone ) and that classmate of mine still drooled over her badly.... personality over looks...yeah right.
Not saying any of us here are hypocrites , It's great u find personality more important but I'm just your average geek , yes I DO look at girls , yes i DO find myself attracted to the beautiful ones first , but if she demands the world then i dont think she's superior to my computer....
Oh and yes , I LOVE BoA
Edit : I remember my tuition teacher once saying this ' Sheesh guys nowadays , they kinda like the mean and naughty girls better now dont they? They like the ones that are hard to get not the gentle loving ones . Damn they are kinda mad and whats the word ?...sadistic? ' LOL
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him : ' personality is so much more important than looks '
me : ' really? like seriously u think so? '
him : ' OF COURSE! '
another friend : ' DUDE CHECK THAT GIRL OUT! '
him : ' where? Ohhhh NICE! '
another friend : ' the one to the left '
him : ' AHHH i see her! OHH EEMMM GEEE mini skirts...'
me : ' -_-" '
This was wad really happened everything above is true , if memory serves right we heard that girl acting coquettish to her dad ( on the phone ) and that classmate of mine still drooled over her badly.... personality over looks...yeah right.
Not saying any of us here are hypocrites , It's great u find personality more important but I'm just your average geek , yes I DO look at girls , yes i DO find myself attracted to the beautiful ones first , but if she demands the world then i dont think she's superior to my computer....
Oh and yes , I LOVE BoA
Edit : I remember my tuition teacher once saying this ' Sheesh guys nowadays , they kinda like the mean and naughty girls better now dont they? They like the ones that are hard to get not the gentle loving ones . Damn they are kinda mad and whats the word ?...sadistic? ' LOL
Yes it's a she
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Interesting that you listed "comfortable" as the seperate category... Comfortable ones are girls that you feel comfortable with... So, if you like being with sexy hot girls then those girls are comfortable with you, right? In other words, comfortable girls may also be hot, sexy, pretty girls too for other guys. Unless, your interpretation of "comfortable girls" are normal looking/ average girl with nice personality ????itsukiD wrote:
in regards to the original topic of what type of girl i like?
1. symmetrical features (sux that looks are first, huh? i blame society, again
2. comfortable to be around
3. sexual prowess that matches or exceeds my own (hey, deep down everyone is a pervert )
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@Dreamfall: As someone already mentioned, if you wear make-up and it makes u feel prettier then do it. But sometimes you really need to do it, like when you are going to partys with ur bf, you should at least make yourself pretty.
But all guys like pretty girls, cat just say that I prefer an ugly girl with good personality. The image is pretty important, so is the personality.
BTW that technic just doesnt work, cant just go make any accidents, have to get eye contact and then you can go towards her and find an excuse or something you wonder! ;)
and @Densha! HAHAHA damn i had a good laugh after your post!
Lemme ask you, how often do you have to get tough and protect the one you care about, obviously you have watched to many movies/dramas.
And well, no1 goes around and squeeze your nipples without knowing you, if so then that girl has to be sick/stupid/horny.
And whatta hell, ofc they want to have some sex experience, but they dont just f*** you at once they know you, that must be sluts, but thats only so many of them.
And when you say korean dramas are the fictional world for you, I think that you havent experienced enough of your 25 yrs of life. You have probably just sit inside in front of ur computer watching dramas all the time.
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But all guys like pretty girls, cat just say that I prefer an ugly girl with good personality. The image is pretty important, so is the personality.
BTW that technic just doesnt work, cant just go make any accidents, have to get eye contact and then you can go towards her and find an excuse or something you wonder! ;)
and @Densha! HAHAHA damn i had a good laugh after your post!
Lemme ask you, how often do you have to get tough and protect the one you care about, obviously you have watched to many movies/dramas.
And well, no1 goes around and squeeze your nipples without knowing you, if so then that girl has to be sick/stupid/horny.
And whatta hell, ofc they want to have some sex experience, but they dont just f*** you at once they know you, that must be sluts, but thats only so many of them.
And when you say korean dramas are the fictional world for you, I think that you havent experienced enough of your 25 yrs of life. You have probably just sit inside in front of ur computer watching dramas all the time.
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I fight approx. two times per week for the ones I love.nnt wrote:@Dreamfall: As someone already mentioned, if you wear make-up and it makes u feel prettier then do it. But sometimes you really need to do it, like when you are going to partys with ur bf, you should at least make yourself pretty.
But all guys like pretty girls, cat just say that I prefer an ugly girl with good personality. The image is pretty important, so is the personality.
BTW that technic just doesnt work, cant just go make any accidents, have to get eye contact and then you can go towards her and find an excuse or something you wonder! ;)
and @Densha! HAHAHA damn i had a good laugh after your post!
Lemme ask you, how often do you have to get tough and protect the one you care about, obviously you have watched to many movies/dramas.
And well, no1 goes around and squeeze your nipples without knowing you, if so then that girl has to be sick/stupid/horny.
And whatta hell, ofc they want to have some sex experience, but they dont just f*** you at once they know you, that must be sluts, but thats only so many of them.
And when you say korean dramas are the fictional world for you, I think that you havent experienced enough of your 25 yrs of life. You have probably just sit inside in front of ur computer watching dramas all the time.
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Actually, there is a story behind the nipple-squeeze statement.Pekana wrote:I love this thread. It was funny before, but now that Densha Otoko appeared I think it stepped up a level on the ladder of hilarity. Random nipple-squeeze? Seriously? That's scary.
I never drop my clothes in public. I'm quite confident of my body, it's well built, but I just hate feeling naked in public. Anyway, at this years Roskilde Festival (last week) we had the most rain ever, needless to say there was lot of mud, and after falling in my drunkness I fealt like losing my tshirt.
I had not had any girls noticing me untill then. After 5 minutes these two girls I passed by, stopped to chat me up and squeeze my nipples (while caressing my tummy) and saying "why are your nipples all hard?".
True story this is.
I have NEVER experienced anything like it beforehand, but then again I'm never half naked in public. So it made me think that girls will squeeze my nipples whenever they get the chance.
Well, those were obviously not ordinary circumstances and I bet those girls weren't sober either. So you shouldn't be so hasty with your judgement. A rowdy rock festival isn't exactly the place you should expect to see exemplary behavior from people.Densha Otoko wrote:Actually, there is a story behind the nipple-squeeze statement.Pekana wrote:I love this thread. It was funny before, but now that Densha Otoko appeared I think it stepped up a level on the ladder of hilarity. Random nipple-squeeze? Seriously? That's scary.
I never drop my clothes in public. I'm quite confident of my body, it's well built, but I just hate feeling naked in public. Anyway, at this years Roskilde Festival (last week) we had the most rain ever, needless to say there was lot of mud, and after falling in my drunkness I fealt like losing my tshirt.
I had not had any girls noticing me untill then. After 5 minutes these two girls I passed by, stopped to chat me up and squeeze my nipples (while caressing my tummy) and saying "why are your nipples all hard?".
True story this is.
I have NEVER experienced anything like it beforehand, but then again I'm never half naked in public. So it made me think that girls will squeeze my nipples whenever they get the chance.
Poor guy.Densha Otoko wrote:Actually, there is a story behind the nipple-squeeze statement.Pekana wrote:I love this thread. It was funny before, but now that Densha Otoko appeared I think it stepped up a level on the ladder of hilarity. Random nipple-squeeze? Seriously? That's scary.
I never drop my clothes in public. I'm quite confident of my body, it's well built, but I just hate feeling naked in public. Anyway, at this years Roskilde Festival (last week) we had the most rain ever, needless to say there was lot of mud, and after falling in my drunkness I fealt like losing my tshirt.
I had not had any girls noticing me untill then. After 5 minutes these two girls I passed by, stopped to chat me up and squeeze my nipples (while caressing my tummy) and saying "why are your nipples all hard?".
True story this is.
I have NEVER experienced anything like it beforehand, but then again I'm never half naked in public. So it made me think that girls will squeeze my nipples whenever they get the chance.
hmm... i guess u can say that my comfort zone when it comes to women is pretty broad (u can thank my last girlfriend for that ) i jus feel that whatever status (hot, sexy, normal, average, married, involved, i like 'em all ) that intimidation factor doesnt apply to me anymore cuz i figure whatever facade she's trying to portray, deep down she's still just another person.AboutDrama wrote: Interesting that you listed "comfortable" as the seperate category... Comfortable ones are girls that you feel comfortable with... So, if you like being with sexy hot girls then those girls are comfortable with you, right? In other words, comfortable girls may also be hot, sexy, pretty girls too for other guys. Unless, your interpretation of "comfortable girls" are normal looking/ average girl with nice personality ????
you just have to put yourself out there and experience life. we cant expect our lives to fall into a dramedy love situation, where the guy is torn between his timid state and his attraction to the heroine, and in the end gets the girl ( all hail the train man, hehe)
oh yeah, if your wondering about the "fear of rejection" f*** that nonsense. one of my friends went out clubbin and spit game to 85% of the girls there, despite all the rejections he went home with one of them.
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