This is something many probably try on a daily basis! Do you think it’s possible or not? Are cam girls, boys and trannies even allowed to date users of their adult sex chat sites? Maybe it’s not ethical, maybe they’re not interested in them that way. After all, if you see someone as a part of your job, why even be attracted to that person? Also, most users don’t even show their faces, let alone bodies! There are certain sites, though, where the most loyal users get some titles. Casanova, Romeo, Lancelot… This happens on Live Jasmin – there’s a page for that called Club Elite! It’s a cool feature, very interesting. Do you think models here date these Casanovas and Romeos?? Maybe it’s just a trick to earn even more money? :O
At least when you go to CamTrends, you know the models won’t try to get more money from you! It’s because this site is free, and all the adult sex chat shows are always free! Even the private shows are free, and that’s rare! But let’s see if we can seduce a model here! It’s a great place to approach someone because these models are not as fancy as the ones on Live Jasmin. They are more modest and approachable, and we know not everything’s about the tips and cash!
It’s All About the Self-Confidence, Baby!
There’s this really sexy cam girl on CamTrends with a username kimilee22. She’s a blonde with greenish eyes, or maybe they’re blue? It’s a bit hard to tell because the focus are not her eyes! She’s not the most perfect hourglass figure, but her skittles are pretty cute. She often exposes them, but leaves other pieces of clothing on her body. She’s fit and pretty, and smiles a lot. Perfect to try something! So, if you want to approach kimilee22 and practice on her, you can just send her a message. The first and best tip is to always just seem confident! Now, for some, that is pretty hard. It’s not easy to be confident, especially when you want to approach a good-looking girl. Also, she is very successful here – so many fans, comments galore, people send her tips and gifts… How to even start anything?
Here’s the answer – fake it until you make it! Send kimilee22 something that’ll make you seem confident! If you don’t know how to sound confident, copy a text you find on Google! At least that’s easy to find! Tell her she’s pretty, ask her how she’s been… And then you can just tell her you’d like to date her! Of course, it’s always better to say something like that during a private show. With so many comments, she maybe won’t even spot yours. You can sound as confident as possible, but you know how many people send her stuff? Hundreds, sometimes thousands! Only when you go private, you’ll be able to speak to her. You two will be alone! You think you’re alone now, as that song says? Be the Casanova you deserve to be! Fake it if you don’t feel confident. Copy texts. Imitate Casanova from the movie!
Be an Attentive Listener, Don’t Be Selfish!
If you want people to find you charming and irresistible, listen to them! Being an adult sex chat model must be so hard. So many people to please, and they are all different! Maybe the girl/boy/tranny you choose faces so many weird, unusual and heavy situations daily? They definitely deserve someone to talk to! Ask them about their day, what they like and dislike, who their most demanding clients were… There are always things you can ask! And when you do ask, let the model talk. Maybe that won’t make her/him fall in love with you instantly, but it’s a great start! First you ask questions, then you listen… Hey, you can even be their personal therapist! Now, that’s something people like! And these models must love themselves a lot. After all, they wouldn’t be doing this job if that weren’t the case. So, they must like talking about themselves!
There’s another cam girl on Cam Trends you can try to approach – theislandgirl. She’s a cute curly-haired with strawberry blonde hair and blue eyes. All these attributes make her gorgeous! She looks like a Barbie doll, but if she had curly hair. This girl is all about good vibes, and that kind of makes her approachable. She seems sweet, like someone who wouldn’t judge you for making a move! Anyway, you can go private with her and ask her about her day/night. Try to find something in common. That always helps! It would definitely be cool to send her a gift. Something that will make her happy! If you send tips, maybe she’ll just see you as her job. But gifts are more personal. It can be a sticker, it can be a poem! Hey, that would be a big plus – why don’t you write a poem to your model??
Educate Yourself and Don’t Give Up Easily!
To be sexy to an adult sex chat model, you can educate yourself. About the porn biz, the entire sex industry, or not. Maybe you can just talk about something else! The important thing is you sound worldly! Like you know a lot about life, people, all kinds of topics! Some adult sex chat models are probably not well-educated. Of course, they are all different! Some of these girls/boys/t-girls are actually lawyers to be, they study everything from medicine to economy, and some have seriously high IQs! Maybe this is not easy to believe, but do you know that most porn stars are highly intelligent? People think they are dumb because everyone thinks doing porn is the easiest thing ever! But no, porn stars study on colleges and they have skills to be greater show people than most actors! That’s why so many of them are rich and successful!
Now, what if a model of your preference tells you they’re not interested at all? Don’t give up! Rome wasn’t built in a day, and confidence doesn’t mean you’ll always be successful! No, you’re a bigger Casanova if you keep on making a move even when you get rejected than if you get lucky right away! No matter if you want a cam girl, boys or tranny, they probably think they deserve someone who fights for them! And if you give it a hundred of tries, and you still have no success, just try with another adult sex chat model! Make them jelly! Just kidding, they probably won’t even know it. But if you want to seduce a model, you have to be veeery persistent! After all, these folks have so many people who worship them! So many rich, successful, charismatic and fun people! But you be the best!
Respect Is the Key Feeling Here…
Adult sex chat models are here for your pleasure, but that doesn’t mean their pleasure doesn’t count! They’re important, too! Sometimes people forget that. Today most cam companies make sure there are no rude and disrespectful users on their sites. In the past, models had problems of all kinds with their viewers. Fights, insults, rude comments… There are always those who don’t respect this profession. They come to webcam sex sites because they’re bored, but they only want to make the models feel bad. Forget about it! You are sexy when you show them respect, treat them like queens/kings. If you can afford it, send them nice stuff to show them their job matters. These can be chocolates, jewelry, books even! Whatever you like – clothes, flowers… And yeah, what about those poems, hm?? Are you creative? Write them something sexy and profound. Show them your depths!
The most important thing here is to never tell them anything that will make them feel insecure. You don’t have to give them too many false compliments either, though! If you genuinely like their smile, tell them. If you don’t like their hairstyle or maybe style of stripping – skip it, don’t be that brutally honest! At least not in a wrong way. Wait for them to like you, get to know you, and then you can give suggestions on how they can improve their work. Don’t give too many compliments, either, because that can seem desperate. Especially if they are already a bit smug! However, if you notice they are shy, compliments can be very helpful! And wanted! You want them to feel good, right? This is something different in everyone. You’ll have to be clever here and see what you’re dealing with.
It’s Always Sexy When You Take Charge!
Lastly, you know what people really like? Someone who knows how to take charge! Of everything! Let’s say you’re a man who wants to seduce a female or trans adult sex chat model. It’s desirable to take charge because you’re a man! OK, what if you’re gay and want to seduce a gay adult sex chat model? Probably gays like men who know how to be a bit bossy, too! Not bossy in a bad way, just someone self-assure enough to know how to control and dominate situations. Maybe you’re a girl who wants to seduce a straight male adult sex chat model? Models like this also probably like girls in control! Everyone likes people who know what they want! If the model wants to be bossy, too, let them! But only to the point of not losing yourself. You want collaboration, not losing yourself in someone you find hot.
And some more handy pieces of advice is for you to be patient, maybe romantic sometimes, smart, eloquent, talkative, but also a great listener… OK, you have to be perfect! And you really need to be special and extremely charismatic. You know why? Because adult sex chat models have fans of all looks, assets, from all places from the world… It’s really hard to be the best and seduce the models, right? But why not have fun trying? 😊 Life should be all about that – having fun while learning things! What can you learn about yourself? Are you a Casanova or not? Maybe you won’t get the girl/boy/tranny, but at least you’ll learn how to be more confident and sexy! 😉